Courtship, Family Integrated Churches, Full-Quiver, Homeschool Movement, Modesty and Purity Teachings, Parenting, Patriarchal-Complementarian Movement, Voddie Baucham

Voddie Baucham: Prescription for Spanking and the Shy Child

*     *     * One of the traps that we got ourselves caught in was looking to religious leaders for guidance on how to raise our children.  It's ok to seek guidance, but we didn't always check what we learned with scripture.  We read a lot of books and went to parenting… Continue reading Voddie Baucham: Prescription for Spanking and the Shy Child

Disturbing Trends, Doctrine as Idol, J.D. Hall

Indoctrinating Your Children with Doctrine

*     *     * Someone sent me a link to this book for children.  The book was just recently published - just over a month ago - April 2013. Here is the book description from Amazon: Come along on a journey with Mitchell, as he recalls his nightmare for his mother. Mitchell… Continue reading Indoctrinating Your Children with Doctrine

Christian Love, John Piper, SURVIVOR STORIES

What Do Victims of Natural Disasters Need? A Survivor Shares

*     *     * Jesus wept.  John 11:35  Yesterday, I got ten times mores hits on my blog than usual  -  all because of someone's tweet - - someone who should know better - but who said something so shocking that people came to see the tweet for themselves  (the tweet had… Continue reading What Do Victims of Natural Disasters Need? A Survivor Shares

Crazy Things Church Leaders Say & Do, John Piper, Troubling Tweets

John Piper’s Tweet During Devastating Twister Aftermath

*     *     * So, I'm minding my own business catching up on the latest Twitter news and it is filled with tweets about the devastating aftermath of the Twister in Oklahoma that as of this posting has 20 confirmed deaths and 145 people hospitalized.  People are still being pulled from the… Continue reading John Piper’s Tweet During Devastating Twister Aftermath

Council for Bibl. Manhood & Womanhood, Crazy Things Church Leaders Say & Do, Extra-Biblical Nonsense, Failure to Report Crimes, Kevin Swanson, Patriarchal-Complementarian Movement, Sovereign Grace Ministries, Sovereign Grace Ministries Lawsuit, Spiritual Abuse

Council for Biblical Manhood and Womanhood: When Did “Roles” Become a Primary Doctrinal Issue?

*     *     * One of the more troubling trends I see in Christiandom is making what I understand to be secondary issues as primary doctrinal issues.  Sometimes church leaders will say certain issues are "gospel" issues, that the whole gospel message depends on adhering to whatever bandwagon said church leader is… Continue reading Council for Biblical Manhood and Womanhood: When Did “Roles” Become a Primary Doctrinal Issue?

Council for Bibl. Manhood & Womanhood, Kevin Swanson, Patriarchal-Complementarian Movement, Sovereign Grace Ministries, Women and the Church

CBMW: Christian Feminists, Complementarians, and Are Men Protecting Their Position of Privilege?

*     *     * *     *     * Last year when I started blogging and connecting with other blogs/bloggers, there were two big words that meant nothing to me:  complementarian and egalitarian.   In fact, at first the words just plain annoyed me and I didn't bother to look… Continue reading CBMW: Christian Feminists, Complementarians, and Are Men Protecting Their Position of Privilege?

Crazy Things Church Leaders Say & Do, Extra-Biblical Nonsense, Full-Quiver, Kevin Swanson, Patriarchal-Complementarian Movement

My Response to Kevin Swanson’s Non-Response about Embedded Dead Babies and Damage Control

I asked a favor of one of my sleuth readers and while searching he came across some interesting information.  Coming from a place where there was a no-talk rule and where things were not fully disclosed, I have a different policy here.  This is a place where I fully disclose, especially when there are unsuspecting loyal… Continue reading My Response to Kevin Swanson’s Non-Response about Embedded Dead Babies and Damage Control

Crazy Things Church Leaders Say & Do, Full-Quiver, Homeschool Movement, Kevin Swanson, Patriarchal-Complementarian Movement, Reconstructionist-Dominion Movement, Spiritual Bullies

Kevin Swanson Issues Response to Dead Embedded Babies Comment

Kevin Swanson has updated his blog with a response regarding the womb being a graveyard for dead babies for women who have taken birth control pills - - - - or something along those lines. Here is a part of his response: In a recent program, the matter of the abortifacient effects of the birth… Continue reading Kevin Swanson Issues Response to Dead Embedded Babies Comment

Crazy Things Church Leaders Say & Do, Full-Quiver, Kevin Swanson, Patriarchal-Complementarian Movement, Reconstructionist-Dominion Movement, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Bullies

Kevin Swanson Fails to Provide Sources for Ignorant, Unsettling Statement

  *          *          *          *         * Those of you who follow me on Twitter (DefendtheSheep), know that I have been trying to get to the bottom of the quote by Pastor Kevin Swanson, the popular homeschool leader who reported… Continue reading Kevin Swanson Fails to Provide Sources for Ignorant, Unsettling Statement

Disturbing Trends, Extra-Biblical Nonsense, Full-Quiver, Homeschool Movement, Kevin Swanson, Patriarchal-Complementarian Movement, Reconstructionist-Dominion Movement, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Bullies

Kevin Swanson Spews Nonsense from His Mouth to Further His Birth Control Agenda

* * * Kevin Swanson spews rhetoric:  Dead embedded fetuses in wombs for women on birth control pills! I get slightly annoyed, no, actually royally peeved when people use their position of leadership and influence to push their agenda. I've been on the inside of the homeschool movement and seen how this works. The Christian… Continue reading Kevin Swanson Spews Nonsense from His Mouth to Further His Birth Control Agenda

BGBC Lawsuit, Domestic Violence and Churches, John Piper, Marriages Damaged-Destroyed by Sp. Ab., Sovereign Grace Ministries, Women and the Church

John Piper and the Church on Domestic Violence

Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves;     ensure justice for those being crushed. 9  Yes, speak up for the poor and helpless,     and see that they get justice. Proverbs 31:8-9     In an earlier post, Domestic Violence:  Do Pastors Know Best?, I posted a video of a question and answer… Continue reading John Piper and the Church on Domestic Violence

BGBC Lawsuit, Bloggers and Freedom of Speech, C.J. Mahaney, Calvary Chapel Lawsuit, Grace Community Church, John MacArthur, Resident Artist Drawings, Sexual Abuse/Assault and Churches, Sovereign Grace Ministries, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Bullies

Are Bloggers & the Internet Having a Direct Effect on Churches and Their Policies?

Before I get to the subject of this article, I wanted to give a brief update on my court case:  I've had a few people asking me on the blog and privately if my former pastor has paid the attorney's fees.  He and/or the church did pay the attorney fees for the two defendants who… Continue reading Are Bloggers & the Internet Having a Direct Effect on Churches and Their Policies?

BGBC Google Reviews, BGBC Lawsuit, CHRISTIAN LEADERS, Christian Love, Fred Butler, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Bullies

The World is Watching Us

*** One of the key signs of a healthy person and a healthy church is looking at the fruit they exhibit.  What kind of love do they show?  How do they model Christ to the world?  The world is watching and judging. I read some words yesterday that were shocking to me on many levels.… Continue reading The World is Watching Us

Fred Butler, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Bullies, Uncategorized

How Far Will We Go to Contend for the Faith?

*     *     * Ladies and Gentlemen, I have been waiting for this response from Mr. Butler for a while.  He has now addressed the issue and I would like to open it up for discussion.   I was concerned that we wouldn't hear from Fred again and that the questions might remain… Continue reading How Far Will We Go to Contend for the Faith?

ABUSERS & THEIR TACTICS, BGBC Google Reviews, BGBC Lawsuit, BLOG INFORMATION, Bloggers and Freedom of Speech, Grace Community Church, Media Interviews with Julie Anne, Phil Johnson, Spiritual Bullies

A Few Notes from Julie Anne

*** Countdown:  5 days till court date,  drawn by JA's 9-yr old *** Just a few things to share before a "regular" blog post coming up as my 9-yr old is busy with his drawing for the post. Phil Johnson from Grace Community Church (John MacArthur's church) reached out to me yesterday and we had… Continue reading A Few Notes from Julie Anne

BGBC Lawsuit, John MacArthur, Phil Johnson

Phil Johnson Issues Statement Regarding Beaverton Grace Bible Church Lawsuit Against Former Members

*     *     * Our former pastor, Chuck O'Neal, said in a Google review (now removed) that a pastor from Grace Community encouraged him to sue us.  This is the public response from John MacArthur/Grace Community via The Wartburg Watch blog.  Dee, thanks for posting the information.  "In a story currently circulating… Continue reading Phil Johnson Issues Statement Regarding Beaverton Grace Bible Church Lawsuit Against Former Members

BGBC Google Reviews, BGBC Lawsuit, Bloggers and Freedom of Speech, Crazy Things Church Leaders Say & Do, Grace Community Church, John MacArthur, Phil Johnson, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Bullies

Anticipation

Six More Days Until Court Hearing There are a number of Christian bloggers keeping up with our story.  Yesterday, two popular bloggers posted articles about our situation and I wanted to give more information so you can see how things fit together. I'll give a little background.  This is the original Google review that was… Continue reading Anticipation

ABUSERS & THEIR TACTICS, ABUSIVE FAITH & PRACTICE, BGBC Google Reviews, BGBC Lawsuit, Bloggers and Freedom of Speech, Crazy Things Church Leaders Say & Do, Grace Community Church, John MacArthur, Spiritual Bullies

Weapons of Battle

** Those of us who attended Beaverton Grace Bible Church certainly know how much the pastor admired and respected John MacArthur.  I have heard first-hand from a pastor at Grace Community that Chuck O'Neal and others went to the Shepherd's Conference this year as they have gone many years past. I'd like to remind my… Continue reading Weapons of Battle