SSB Sunday Gathering

SSB Sunday Gathering – November 9, 2014

*** Spiritual Sounding Board – This is your place to gather and share in an open format. *** But thanks be to God, who always leads us in triumph in Christ, and manifests through us the sweet aroma of the knowledge of Him in every place.   For we are a fragrance of Christ to God among… Continue reading SSB Sunday Gathering – November 9, 2014

ABUSE & VIOLENCE IN THE CHURCH, Christian Love, Domestic Violence and Churches, Going Back to Church Again, Leaving the Church, Sexual Abuse/Assault and Churches, Spiritual Abuse

Why Don’t Young People go to Church?

  *** My friend, Pastor Jeff Crippen, who blogs about domestic violence at A Cry for Justice posted the following note on the A Cry for Justice Facebook page and I asked pretty please if I could share it with you. Yes, I really did say, "pretty please."  LOL Sadly, at Spiritual Sounding Board, we do often… Continue reading Why Don’t Young People go to Church?

LAWSUITS, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Bullies

VCY America Founder, Vic Eliason, Sends Letter Threatening Legal Action to His Daughter, Ingrid Schlueter

*** VCY America Founder sends letter threatening legal action to his daughter, Ingrid Schlueter, via attorney Patrick Russell ***   There's a section in the bible on civil lawsuits in 1 Corinthians. I remember looking up this passage after I was sued by my former pastor and church. I wondered how he could call himself a pastor… Continue reading VCY America Founder, Vic Eliason, Sends Letter Threatening Legal Action to His Daughter, Ingrid Schlueter

SSB Sunday Gathering

SSB Sunday Gathering – November 2, 2014

*** Spiritual Sounding Board – This is your place to gather and share in an open format.     *** …He restores my soul; He guides me in the paths of righteousness For His name's sake. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil, for You are with me;… Continue reading SSB Sunday Gathering – November 2, 2014

Leaving the Church, Mark Driscoll, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Bullies

Is anyone celebrating the demise of Mark Driscoll and Mars Hill churches? Is it really over? Should current Mars Hill pastors be leading new churches?

*** Mars Hill Churches dissolving, becoming independent churches.  Are people really celebrating? Should current Mars Hill pastors assume the role of pastors in the new independent churches? ***   Yesterday, Mars Hill Pastor Dave Bruskas announced that the Mars Hill board decided that Marks Hill churches were dissolving:   Today, I am excited to share… Continue reading Is anyone celebrating the demise of Mark Driscoll and Mars Hill churches? Is it really over? Should current Mars Hill pastors be leading new churches?

John Piper, Troubling Tweets

Two Troubling Tweets: John Piper

From the man who is seen as the expert on Biblical gender roles:     *** ***

Disturbing Trends, Emotional Responses, Evangelism

Christians and Halloween: What’s a Christian to do?

*** There are various ways Christians respond to Halloween. What is a balanced response? ***   I have a hunch that Halloween can bring up some legalistic triggers for people, so I wanted to make sure to give an opportunity to discuss it. Kathi shared this on the SSB Facebook page:       Guilt… Continue reading Christians and Halloween: What’s a Christian to do?

SSB Sunday Gathering

SSB Sunday Gathering – October 26, 2014

Spiritual Sounding Board – This is your place to gather and share in an open format.         *** One day some parents brought their children to Jesus so he could touch and bless them. But the disciples scolded the parents for bothering him. When Jesus saw what was happening, he was angry with his… Continue reading SSB Sunday Gathering – October 26, 2014

Doctrine as Idol, Spiritual Abuse, Word of Faith Movement

Word of Faith: Finding the balance between truth and abuse

*** Word of Faith teachings:  the balance between truth and abuse ***       Julie Anne is out on the road for most of the day and she asked me to post a discussion piece about Word of Faith. -Kathi First, I would like to thank Loura Lawrence for sharing her story with us.… Continue reading Word of Faith: Finding the balance between truth and abuse

Disturbing Trends, Personal Stories, Spiritual Abuse, Word of Faith Movement

A Personal Story: Spiritual Abuse through Word of Faith Teachings during Tragic Infant Loss

 *** Loura Lawrence shares her personal story of infant loss and spiritual abuse through Word of Faith occult-like teachings ***   October is the month designated for pregnancy and infant loss awareness, so this story is timely. Last week, I received a personal story of infant loss and spiritual abuse. Imagine combining the tragic loss of a… Continue reading A Personal Story: Spiritual Abuse through Word of Faith Teachings during Tragic Infant Loss

Learn to Discern, Modesty and Purity Teachings, Todd Friel

Teaching youth about virginity and forgiveness via Todd Friel

*** Todd Friel discusses how to talk to youth about virginity and what to say if they fail.       We've talked about the purity culture that some of our teens have been taught (Soul Tied: Harmful Spiritual Conclusions about Sex Abuse, Purity Culture, and Sex Abuse Victims). What do you think about this new video… Continue reading Teaching youth about virginity and forgiveness via Todd Friel

SSB Sunday Gathering

SSB Sunday Gathering – October 18, 2014

*** Spiritual Sounding Board – This is your place to gather and share in an open format.     *** And then, as they stood with folded wings, there was a voice from above the dome over their heads. Above the dome there was something that looked like a throne, sky-blue like a sapphire, with a humanlike… Continue reading SSB Sunday Gathering – October 18, 2014

Church Bandwagon, John Piper, Kevin DeYoung, Learn to Discern, RC Sproul Jr., The Gospel Coalition, Troubling Tweets

Some Christian Leaders are Hijacking the Ebola Crisis to Promote their Theology or Agenda

*** Christian Leaders Respond to the Ebola Crisis promoting their agendas or theologies. Others respond in humility with real help to those in need. *** ***   But if anyone has the world’s goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God’s love abide in him? 1 John 3:17  ***… Continue reading Some Christian Leaders are Hijacking the Ebola Crisis to Promote their Theology or Agenda

Authoritative Preaching, Mark Driscoll, Narcissistic Pastors, Shunning, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Bullies

After Mark Driscoll’s Resignation, Can Mars Hill Be Saved?

*** Pastor Mark Driscoll recently resigned from the church he founded, Mars Hill.  Can Mars Hill be saved? ***   Mars Hill plans on moving forward as clearly identified in this statement put out by the Mars Hill Board of Overseers: Michael Van Skaik, Larry Osborne, Jon Phelps, and Matt Rogers: On Tuesday, October 14,… Continue reading After Mark Driscoll’s Resignation, Can Mars Hill Be Saved?

Troubling Tweets

BREAKING and Important News from RC Sproul Jr, “Beards are a Revolution,” Proving That Men and Women are Not Interchangeable

*** R.C. Sproul, Jr. in his comparison of men and women says beards are "revolution on the face" *** So my question to Mr. Sproul - what about this woman? *** /p> And what if a man can't? grow a beard  . . . . .   ***

Bill Gothard, IBLP and ATI, Sexual Abuse/Assault and Churches, Spiritual Abuse

Bill Gothard’s New Program/Ministry: Total Success Power Teams

Bill Gothard launches new accountability ministry/program: Total Success Power Teams BACKGROUND A few weeks ago, I was given some information regarding a new "program" that Bill Gothard is promoting.  I was shocked that he'd want to get back in the saddle of ministry work so soon after resigning from the Board of the Institute in Basic… Continue reading Bill Gothard’s New Program/Ministry: Total Success Power Teams

SSB Sunday Gathering

SSB Sunday Gathering – October 12, 2014

*** Spiritual Sounding Board – This is your place to gather and share in an open format.           *** In that day this song will be sung in the land of Judah: We have a strong city; God makes salvation its walls and ramparts. Open the gates that the righteous nation may enter,… Continue reading SSB Sunday Gathering – October 12, 2014

Disturbing Trends, Modesty and Purity Teachings, Sexual Abuse/Assault and Churches

Soul Tied: Harmful Spiritual Conclusions about Sex Abuse, Purity Culture, and Sex Abuse Victims

*** Christian leaders put their spiritual spin on sexual abuse and premarital sex and devalue young women in the process. *** The church has sometimes done a poor job on handling sex abuse and premarital sex and I was reminded once again this week. But let me back up and give other examples of how… Continue reading Soul Tied: Harmful Spiritual Conclusions about Sex Abuse, Purity Culture, and Sex Abuse Victims

ABUSE & VIOLENCE IN THE CHURCH, Christian Domestic Discipline, Christian Marriage, Domestic Violence, Domestic Violence and Churches, Extra-Biblical Nonsense, Marriages Damaged-Destroyed by Sp. Ab., Misuse of Scripture, Patriarchal-Complementarian Movement, Personal Stories, Spiritual Abuse, Stories of Hope, Women and the Church

Christian Domestic Discipline (Wife Spanking): A Personal Story, and a Closer Look at Patterns Connected with this Abusive Practice

Christian Domestic Discipline, "wife spanking," Christian Patriarchy Movement, Spanking of Adult Children, Denominational Practices and teachings ***   Two summers ago, I received a phone call from a pastor who shared his growing concern about wife-spanking in his family of churches. Months later, I finally reported on the topic of wife spanking in this article: The Christian… Continue reading Christian Domestic Discipline (Wife Spanking): A Personal Story, and a Closer Look at Patterns Connected with this Abusive Practice

SSB Sunday Gathering

SSB Sunday Gathering – October 5, 2014

*** Spiritual Sounding Board – This is your place to gather and share in an open format.         After telling this story, Jesus went on toward Jerusalem, walking ahead of his disciples. As he came to the towns of Bethphage and Bethany on the Mount of Olives, he sent two disciples ahead.  “Go into… Continue reading SSB Sunday Gathering – October 5, 2014