SSB Sunday Gathering

SSB Sunday Gathering – January 20, 2019

Spiritual Sounding Board – This is your place to gather and share in an open format. -by Kathi *** Scripture is taken from the Book of Common Prayer, Readings for Epiphany and Ordinary Time Until Lent, Year 1 and may be found here. Psalm 148 Praise the Lord. Praise the Lord from the heavens; praise him in the heights above. Praise him,… Continue reading SSB Sunday Gathering – January 20, 2019

ABUSE & VIOLENCE IN THE CHURCH, Classical Conversations, No-Talk Rule, Spiritual Bullies

Classical Conversations #9: Bullying as Peer Pressure, and Could CC Compromise Homeschooling Laws in Canada?

"IngonitoToes" shares her experience and concerns when her family participated in her local Canadian Classical Conversations group. She brings up some important issues.

ABUSE & VIOLENCE IN THE CHURCH

Spiritual Abuse: Stop Being so Bitter

Spiritual Abuse, ReputationJonathan Hollingsworth This is the fifth blog post referring to an article by Jonathan Hollingsworth, What Not to Say to Someone Who’s Been Hurt by the Church. The article resonated with a lot of people, so I thought it might be a good idea to discuss these unhelpful statements one by one here, and give… Continue reading Spiritual Abuse: Stop Being so Bitter

SSB Sunday Gathering

SSB Sunday Gathering – January 13, 2019

Spiritual Sounding Board – This is your place to gather and share in an open format. -by Kathi *** Scripture is taken from the Book of Common Prayer, Readings for Epiphany and Ordinary Time Until Lent, Year 1 and may be found here. Psalm 113 Praise the Lord. Praise the Lord, you his servants; praise the name of the Lord. Let… Continue reading SSB Sunday Gathering – January 13, 2019

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SSB Sunday Gathering – January 6, 2019

Spiritual Sounding Board – This is your place to gather and share in an open format. -by Kathi *** Scripture is taken from the Book of Common Prayer, Readings for Epiphany and Ordinary Time Until Lent, Year 1 and may be found here. Psalm 100 Shout for joy to the Lord, all the earth. Worship the Lord with gladness; come before him with… Continue reading SSB Sunday Gathering – January 6, 2019

Addressing Abuse, Christian Marriage, Complementarianism, Doctrine as Idol, Domestic Violence, Lori Alexander, Marriage, Spiritual Abuse, The Transformed Wife

Lori Alexander Shares Thoughts on Verbal Abuse

"Verbal abuse needs to be taken as seriously as physical abuse. Just because you can't see the effects of verbal abuse doesn't mean that it's not as damaging."

ABUSE & VIOLENCE IN THE CHURCH, Crazy Things Church Leaders Say & Do, John Piper, Troubling Tweets

John Piper Wants You to Marry the Bible This Year?!

John Piper never fails to leave people scratching their heads!

SSB Sunday Gathering

SSB Sunday Gathering – December 30, 2018

SSB Sunday Gathering - This is your place to gather and share in an open format.

SSB Sunday Gathering

SSB Sunday Gathering – December 23, 2018

SSB Sunday Gathering - December 23, 2018 Feel free to join the discussion. You can share your church struggles and concerns.

ABUSE & VIOLENCE IN THE CHURCH, Classical Conversations, No-Talk Rule, Personal Stories

Classical Conversations #8: Personal Story and Financial Nightmare

"I hope this can be a cautionary tale for those interested. Beware of CC. They have no interest in anything but their bottom line."

Addressing Abuse, Christian Marriage, Complementarianism, Doctrine as Idol, Domestic Violence, Domestic Violence and Churches, Gender Roles, Lori Alexander, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Bullies, The Transformed Wife

In Which Ken Gaslights and Lori Thinks Women can Avoid Marrying Abusers

"Lori could stand to learn about abusers before placing the onus of marrying one on a woman."

SSB Sunday Gathering

SSB Sunday Gathering – December 16, 2018

SSB Sunday Gathering - December 16, 2018 Feel free to join the discussion. You can share your church struggles and concerns.

ABUSE & VIOLENCE IN THE CHURCH, Clergy Misconduct, Clergy Sex Abuse, Failure to Report Crimes, Sexual Abuse/Assault and Churches, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Authority, Spiritual Bullies

Spiritual Abuse: What Are Nonbelievers Going to Think?

Spiritual Abuse, ReputationJonathan Hollingsworth This is the fourth blog post referring to an article by Jonathan Hollingsworth, What Not to Say to Someone Who’s Been Hurt by the Church. The article resonated with a lot of people, so I thought it might be a good idea to discuss these unhelpful statements one by one here, and give… Continue reading Spiritual Abuse: What Are Nonbelievers Going to Think?

SSB Sunday Gathering

SSB Sunday Gathering – December 9, 2018

SSB Sunday Gathering Feel free to join the discussion. You can share your church struggles and concerns.

ABUSE & VIOLENCE IN THE CHURCH, Calvinism, Doctrine as Idol, Going Back to Church Again, John Piper, Mental Health and the Church, Personal Stories, Spiritual Abuse

Caution: Children and Predestination

Predestination and Children My friend, Ryan Stollar, posted this on his Facebook wall, and I was struck at how damaging Predestination can be to children, especially vulnerable children. Shoot, I think it could scare adults, too! Special thanks to Ryan for writing about this and giving me permission to share it.  ~ja First off, what… Continue reading Caution: Children and Predestination

Christianity and Politics, Crazy Things Church Leaders Say & Do, Misuse of Scripture, SMH (Shake My Head), Todd Friel, Troubling Tweets

Todd Friel Claims There’s “Not a Word” in the Bible about Fighting Injustice for the Oppressed

He has shown you, O mortal, what is good.    And what does the Lord require of you?To act justly and to love mercy    and to walk humbly with your God.Micah 6:8 Admin note: WordPress is the service I use for this blog. They have a new formatting feature I'm using on this post. Because the post is predominantly tweets, I have… Continue reading Todd Friel Claims There’s “Not a Word” in the Bible about Fighting Injustice for the Oppressed

SSB Sunday Gathering

SSB Sunday Gathering – December 2, 2018

SSB Sunday Gathering Feel free to join the discussion. You can share your church struggles and concerns.

ABUSE & VIOLENCE IN THE CHURCH

Spam Alert

I was just informed that spam comments were posted on the blog. I get literally hundreds of these a day. I may have hit a wrong button when I was in the process of deleting spam earlier. Yikes.  These are VERY BAD spam links. Trust me. Don't click.  Just hit refresh and hopefully you won't… Continue reading Spam Alert

ABUSE & VIOLENCE IN THE CHURCH, Abuse Systems and Transformation Tools, Christian Marriage, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Marriages Damaged-Destroyed by Sp. Ab., Saeed Abedini, Sexual Abuse/Assault and Churches, Spiritual Abuse

Naghmeh Panahi, Ex-Wife of Former Iranian Prisoner, “Pastor” Saeed Abedini, Posts Public Statement on Facebook

It's been a while since I have posted about Saeed Abedini or his ex-wife, Naghmeh. Naghmeh Panahi posted a public note on Facebook yesterday. You may recall that after Saeed Abedini was released from prison in Iran, Naghmeh filed for separation because Saeed would not get help for his abusive behavior in the marriage. Saeed… Continue reading Naghmeh Panahi, Ex-Wife of Former Iranian Prisoner, “Pastor” Saeed Abedini, Posts Public Statement on Facebook

SSB Sunday Gathering

SSB Sunday Gathering – November 25, 2018

SSB Sunday Gathering. Feel free to join the discussion. You can share your church struggles and concerns.