Former Florida Megachurch Pastor Bob Coy Allegedly Sexually Abused 4-yr-old Child

Bob Coy, Calvary Chapel Fort Lauderdale, Pedophile, Sex Abuse


Miami New Times investigative reporter, Tim Elfrink, did a stellar job investigating the shocking story of fallen Calvary Chapel megachurch pastor, Bob Coy.

Some long-time readers may remember I posted about Bob Coy’s moral failure in a blog post dated April 8, 2014:

You may have heard of the recent scandal by Calvary Chapel Ft. Lauderdale Pastor Bob Coy.  The church elders called a special church meeting on Sunday where it was announced:

“On April 3, 2014, Bob Coy resigned as Senior Pastor of Calvary Chapel Fort Lauderdale, effective immediately, after confessing to a moral failing in his life which disqualifies him from continuing his leadership role at the church he has led since its founding in 1985.” (Source)

58-yr old Bob Coy with his wife founded Calvary Chapel Ft. Lauderdale nearly 30 years ago. The church reportedly has over 20,000 attendees and a staff of over 1,000 at 10 different campuses.

Michael Newnham at Phoenix Preacher blog reported:

We have confirmed  that Coy has admitted to at least two affairs in the past year alone and has had a long standing “problem with pornography”.

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Pastors Tullian Tchividjian + Bob Coy + Sexual Sin + Church Leaders Who Protect Immoral Pastors = A Broken Church

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Court Ruling on Calvary Chapel Pastor Bob Grenier’s Lawsuit against His Son and Former Member


Court Ruling on Calvary Chapel Pastor Bob Grenier against his step-son, Alex Grenier and Tim Taylor

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Calvary Chapel Pastor Bob Coy’s Story of Moral Corruption Leads Calvary Chapel Members to Share Their Personal Stories


The moral scandal of mega-church pastor Bob Coy leads others to come forward to tell their personal stories of corruption and abuse among the Calvary Chapel franchise of churches.

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Pastor Chuck Smith, Founder of Calvary Chapel Churches, Dead at 86

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Alex Grenier, son of Calvary Chapel Visalia Pastor Bob Grenier shares his thoughts on the passing of Calvary Chapel founder, Chuck Smith

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Calvary Chapel Visalia Pastor Bob Grenier Lawsuit Ruling

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Today was the ruling in the lawsuit between Calvary Chapel Visalia Bob Grenier and his wife Gayle Grenier vs Alex Grenier and Tim Taylor.  Today’s notice is a setback in the case.  I have spoken with Tim Taylor and he is waiting to hear more news from his attorneys about what comes next.  Alex has not returned my message.

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Church Disputes: Calvary Chapel Boise Pastor Bob Caldwell Sets Good Example

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There are a lot of sad church stories that come my way.   Many times we discuss really difficult situations and happy endings cannot be found.  Although this next story is not over, it is headed in a completely different direction than it was earlier.  My friend and fellow blogger, Alex Grenier of Calvary Chapel Abuse blog posted a wonderful story today and has given me permission to copy it in its entirety to share with you.   I think you’ll understand why I wanted to share it.  I have to give kudos to Alex.  He is truly the real deal.  I’ve had the opportunity to work with him on a few projects behind the scenes  and let me just say that I feel privileged to have him as a friend.  His heart is in the right place.  He is honest, vulnerable, a bit rough around the edges, sometimes snarky, a load of laughs (which we definitely need in this business), but what an amazing champion for victims!  He, like me, comes from  an abusive family and is currently in the midst of a defamation lawsuit brought on by his step-father, Bob Grenier, who also is the pastor at Calvary Chapel Visalia.

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Court update: Calvary Chapel Visalia Pastor Grenier vs Grenier/Taylor

From Calvary Chapel Abuse blog:

Re:     Grenier v. Taylor

Case No.:    249252

Date:   March 5, 2013        Time: 8:30 A.M.

Dept. 7 – The Honorable Paul Vortmann

Motion:   Defendants’ Special Motion To Strike the Complaint as a Meritless SLAPP

Tentative Ruling:   The court finds that Defendants’ Web activities are protected under CCP 425.16(e)(3) and finds that Plaintiff Bob Grenier is a Limited Purpose Public Figure.  The hearing on this motion is continued to April 9, 2013 at 8:30 a.m. in Department 7 on the issue of malice pursuant to the stipulation of the parties submitted on January 15, 2013.

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Day in Court for Calvary Chapel Visalia Pastor Bob Grenier his wife Gayle vs. Step-son/son Alex Grenier and Tim Taylor

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Please continue to pray for Alex and Tim (and all the survivors of Calvary Chapel Visalia today).  The decision and formal hearing on their lawsuit will be today and tomorrow, March 4/5, 2013.  Another prayer request is that this case brings further exposure to the systemic abuse issues among Calvary Chapel churches so that positive changes can take place.  ~ja

Calvary Chapel, Chuck Smith, The Moses Model: Let the Little Dogs Bark!

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We will soon hear the results of the final hearing (Monday/Tuesday) in the anti-SLAPP motion to halt the defamation lawsuit of Calvary Chapel Visalia (CCV) Pastor Bob Grenier and his wife, Gayle vs his step-son/her son, Alex Grenier and former CCV member Tim Taylor.

I have spent literally hours reading Alex and Tim’s story, the personal testimonies of former members, reading news articles, blog articles, audios of interviews/sermons.  What is going on in these churches?  Why are there so many similar stories of abuse, corruption, cover-ups?  Is there a pattern?  Why do leaders not deal appropriately with alleged abuse?  Why are leaders not held accountable?  Why do corrupt leaders stay in their positions of authority, while others are removed?  What is going on!!  At Spiritual Sounding Board, this is like a broken record, because we have been watching similar patterns since my case.

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#WhoWouldJesusSue: Grenier Defamation Lawsuit Archive “Goes Live”

#WhoWouldJesusSue Campaign

Breaking News Advisory


Extensive Archive on Grenier Defamation Lawsuit “Goes Live” Today – March 1, 2013.

A team of volunteers has put together a significant resource on the lawsuit of Grenier & Grenier v. Taylor & Grenier. The Grenier Defamation Lawsuit Archive contains such features as:

  • Key Facts: People, Dates, and Documents.
  • Media FAQs.
  • Historical Narrative of Alex Grenier’s Attempts to Hold Bob Grenier Accountable.
  • Bibliography on the Grenier Lawsuit, Calvary Chapel Franchise, and #WWJS? Campaign.
  • Tutorial on “Defamation/SLAPP Lawsuits for Dummies.”

It also includes press releases and other records from the #WhoWouldJesusSue media campaign related to this case.

The Archive is housed on Alex Grenier’s Calvary Chapel Abuse blog. He launched this blog in July 2010 “as my last resort” when all other attempts since 2004 have failed in confronting his step-father Bob over alleged child physical abuse inflicted on his sons, child sexual abuse of his son Paul, and “eccelesiastical corruption” at the church he has pastored since the 1970s.

According to Alex Grenier’s volunteer team: “The Archive writers and editors have sought to be as factual and fair as possible in presenting historical events and in representing all sides accurately. However, there is a distinct bias and the material here is written from the perspective of the defendants, Tim Taylor and Alex Grenier.”

This Archive is based on a similar one produced after the 2012 case of Beaverton Grace Bible Church v. Smith. In that defamation lawsuit, an Oregon pastor and his church sued five defendants for $500,000 for posting online Google Reviews and blog comments alleging church leadership to be “spiritually abusive.” An anti-SLAPP motion was filed and approved, ending that lawsuit as unsubstantiated and frivolous.

This defamation lawsuit was filed on October 17, 2012, by Bob Grenier, Pastor of Calvary Chapel Visalia (California), and his wife Gayle, alleging former church member Tim Taylor and step-son/son Alex Grenier committed “Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress,” “Defamation,” and “Conspiracy to Defame.”

An anti-SLAPP motion was filed on December 17, 2012, and a tentative decision on the matter is due from California Superior Court Judge Paul Anthony Vortmann. A tentative decision is due to be posted March 4, 2013, followed by a court hearing on March 5.

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Twitter: #WhoWouldJesusSue. @CalvaryChapel. @Bobgrenier.

Official Website: Calvary Chapel Abuse, with its Grenier Defamation Lawsuit Archive.

Media Contact: Julie Anne Smith. Email:

Ms. Smith was the main defendant in the 2012 Oregon case of Beaverton Grace Bible Church v. Smith. Her former pastor and church sued Ms. Smith and four other defendants for $500,000 over claims of defamatory statements posted online about spiritual abuse by the church and its leaders. As in this California case of Grenier & Grenier v. Taylor and Grenier, an anti-SLAPP motion was filed in BGBC v. Smith. So there are significant parallels between the two lawsuits. Ms. Smith now blogs at Spiritual Sounding Board, a site focused on advocacy for survivors of spiritually abusive pastors, churches, ministries, and movements.

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Calvary Chapel Visalia Personal Story: Tina’s Story

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Calvary Chapel is a “franchise” of churches with over 1,500 churches founded by Pastor Chuck Smith.  There is no hierarchy structure in place to hold pastors accountable if they behave like bullies or abuse their authority.  In light of the upcoming hearing March 4/5, 2013, I want to highlight personal stories.

Please be sure to read these posts for further information on this case.  Tina’s story is only one of countless stories.  Other stories are of alleged money corruption, alleged physical and sexual abuse.

More articles can be found in these posts:

#WhoWouldJesusSue: Media FAQs and Resources

#WhoWouldJesusSue: Breaking News Advisory – Press Release #1

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In August of 2012, I visited Calvary Chapel Abuse blog after noticing hits on my blog from that site (Huge legal victory for Free Speech and Church Abuse bloggers).  After reading Alex’s story, I reached out to him, encouraging him as he was hearing rumblings of the possibility that his father might sue him.

Weeks later, Calvary Chapel Visalia Pastor Bob Grenier’s attorneys issued a press release acknowledging their intentions to file a defamation lawsuit.  One person named as defendant on the press release was Tina Jenkins.  In September of 2012, Tina contacted me.  We exchanged several e-mails and I asked if she could tell me her story for publication on my blog.  She agreed and started working on her story.

Eventually, Bob and Gayle Grenier did file a lawsuit against their step-son/son and former church member, Tim Taylor; however, Tina’s name was absent from the lawsuit.  Of course that was a huge relief to Tina, but she said I could still tell her story.  She was strongly connected to the situation and wanted something to be done about the problems she saw at Calvary Chapel Visalia.  I’ve been saving her story all this time.  Tina had been sharing bits and pieces of her story on the Calvary Chapel Abuse blog, but here it is in its entirety.   It is a bold and brave step to speak out against an abuser.  Thank you, Tina.  Your voice is one of many who has suffered this kind of treatment from a pastor.

photo credit: heanster via photopin cc
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O Lord, who may abide in Your tent?
Who may dwell on Your holy hill?
He who walks with integrity, and works righteousness,
And speaks truth in his heart.
He does not slander with his tongue,
Nor does evil to his neighbor,
Nor takes up a reproach against his friend;
In whose eyes a reprobate is despised,
But who honors those who fear the Lord;
He swears to his own hurt and does not change;
He does not put out his money at interest,
Nor does he take a bribe against the innocent.
He who does these things will never be shaken.

Psalm 15

The following is Tina’s story, in her own words, reflecting her thoughts and opinions of  her experiences at Calvary Chapel Visalia under Pastor Bob Grenier.

Tina’s Calvary Chapel Visalia Story

September 28, 2012

Written by Tina Jenkins

I started attending Calvary Chapel Visalia in the fall of 1988. What appealed to me at that time was the very relaxed style, the jeans, shorts and flip-flops. I was born Catholic and married a man who was Methodist, so we had to find a church we both agreed upon. I had a wonderful friend who attended CCV at the time and she encouraged me to come check it out.

The first year or so, I volunteered in the Children’s Ministry where I taught third and fourth grade. It was there I met Paul Grenier, he was in my class. Those were good memories for me. Paul was both smart and funny. He always held a special place in my heart along with a handful of other students. I was newly married with no kids of my own, probably about 21 or 22.

As a new Christian, I was eager to serve and learn. The first interesting thing I remember was, the name changed to Immanuel Christian Fellowship. If my memory serves me right, Bob told the congregation it was so he could teach freely. I never questioned it, I trusted Bob. I also noticed during that time, that many really good people left.  I was too young to question anything, I loved this new church I found.  I trusted Bob and had no idea he had a sinister side to him.  Knowing what I do now, I wish I would have left like the rest of them.

Years, had gone by and I had four children and I was busy with them.  I only attended church and was not involved.  As the kids began to get a little older around 2002, I was approached by a pastor on staff and asked if I would be interested in the Children’s Ministry.  That was something I had never considered and didn’t think I could run three services.  After some thought, I decided that I would give it a try.  I loved it!  Working with the children and awesome teachers that we had, blessed me so much!

I served with my whole heart as unto the Lord.  I even set my family aside many times to serve, which I shouldn’t have.  I did notice from time to time there was an over emphasis on the building, café and church grounds at the expense of the people.  The children’s ministry and the youth ministry struggled while the main sanctuary and anything that had to do with the adults was deluxe.  It made my heart ache.  But I did what I could to make the children’s ministry the best it could be.

During that time Bob hired a good friend of mine who worked hard, from sun up to sun down.  I never and I mean never saw him sitting around being lazy.  This man was a brand new believer and was eager to serve the Lord.  Bob capitalized on that and began to work him relentlessly.  It was almost disgusting the way that Bob had this gentleman cater to him, like Bob was the president and he was his slave.  But this guy loved Bob and would have done anything for him.   Something happened that Bob decided to let him go. Bob said that he wasn’t performing his job.  Ok that’s fine, but there are ways to let people go especially in the church. I believe that it should have been handled in a way that didn’t crush his spirit.  When he was let go, I was very disturbed by it because I knew he did work hard and I couldn’t understand it.

Something about this whole situation didn’t make sense. When it was announced in a staff meeting, they asked if everyone was OK with that or something to that manner.  I remember saying, “No.”  As I can recall, I was the only one that had anything to really say.  Everyone was just quiet. I looked around and thought what is wrong with you people, you’re all ok with it?  (Now I know why they were silent, they knew Bob better than I did apparently.)  I left that meeting shaking my head, but I didn’t know that I would be continually harassed by Bob from that point on.  He was always asking me how I was doing and not in a concerned way, more like trying to find out what side of the fence I was on.  One afternoon while I was working in one of the classrooms, the church secretary came in and said, “Bob wants to talk to you.”  I told her that I didn’t want to talk to him.  She left and then came back and said, “Right now.”  At this point I was crying and I walked out to the hallway and Bob and Greg Dowds quickly rushed me to Bob’s back office behind the church where no one would be.  Bob sat me down and began to try to explain why he had fired this guy.  I just looked at him, finally he got frustrated and began to proceed to raise his voice at me telling me how lazy and blah, blah, blah my friend was.  After he vented his anger out, he then said, “And if you repeat that, then you can leave to!”  I was in shock!  I looked over at Greg who stared at the floor and didn’t even make eye contact and I just thought this guy isn’t who I thought he was at all.

He can’t kick me out of the church?  Can he?  This man isn’t a pastor at all, he just basically told me to hit the door if I repeated what HE just vomited all over me.  It was at that instance that I knew there was something wrong Bob. He was now trying to bully me into submission.  I felt such a demonic feeling that it made me sick to my stomach. I went home that night and I thought how could this be… the church that I loved so much and raised my kids in and now I’m being bullied around by my pastor? I really couldn’t wrap my mind around it. I felt as if my soul was molested.  Greg Dowds called me that night to tell me what a wonderful person I was and how much I did for the children’s ministry. I think it was Bob’s way of doing a little damage control.  There was never an apology from Bob.

Many might wonder why I stayed after that.  It was very complicated in my mind.  My children were born and raised in this church and this was our social life.  I also loved the people there like family and I didn’t want to “disturb the church.”  So I decided to stay which continued the abuse.

Anyway, I stayed and kept my mouth shut so my children would not have to leave the church they loved.  Shortly after that meeting with Bob and Greg, I went into pastor Jim’s office and told him that I never wanted to be left alone with Bob again and if he could please be present if Bob ever needed to talk to me.  Jim’s words were something like, “Did he say something to you?”  I just shook my head no because I didn’t want to disclose what Bob had said and risk being kicked out of the church.  I continued to serve as the Children’s Ministry Director but I had a plan to get out of leadership quietly.  I was not going to be a part of a corrupt leadership.  The weeks following this harassment I just about had a nervous break down. I tried to hide the pain but it was showing and the people who knew me began to ask if I was ok.  I just shook my head “no” but I didn’t say a word. There is nothing worse than seeing the man who is bullying you around with intimidating stares, and a threat hanging over your head, then speak about the love of God from the pulpit.  It was the most disturbing thing in the world. Being the type of person who wears my emotions on my sleeve, my face showed the grief I was feeling.  I was told that I couldn’t go around looking like that and I needed to basically plaster a smile on. This was even more abuse and every time I pulled up at the church I would just start shaking and crying.  I finally went in and told Assistant Pastor Jim that I couldn’t work like this anymore.  I had to step out of the ministry.

Just about the time I stepped out of ministry, they hired a new pastor for the youth. He was a breath of fresh air and had a genuine love for God and the youth. He asked me if I would help in the youth department and I told him I would assist but I wouldn’t get back into a position where I was being paid.  I didn’t want to be a part of leadership there, I saw the arrogance and mean spirit of Bob firsthand.  Well as I helped in the youth, I ended up loving it as well.  I was still very gun-shy and tried to keep my distance.  I don’t know exactly what happened but Bob let him go too. I venture to say because he wasn’t a yes man.  He would speak up when he needed to and that is just not acceptable to Bob.  Bob runs the show with an iron fist.  He basically told him on a Wednesday night that he was to perform worship and someone else would teach.  I was called aside and told that he quit to pursue his music career.  My first thought was, “What?” Then I thought, “I know him and he wouldn’t just leave the kids he loves, that’s not like him.” The look on his face that night was hurt beyond measure and I knew something was wrong. It all came back to me again, how they treated my friend a year prior and how Bob bullied me around and I thought I’m not going through this again.

Because this youth pastor was let go so suddenly, we decided to have a going away party for him at my friend Deanna house. We invited the youth group and anyone else who wanted to say good-bye and good luck. After that evening, it was decided that we would start a Bible study there and he could lead it. Anyone was invited to come, even those who didn’t attend Calvary Chapel.  My husband and I intended to purchase Deanna’s home and continue to have the study.  Pastor Mike called me to ask me how the move was going and I told him fine. He then proceeded to ask me if I was going to continue having that Bible study in my home after I bought the house and I said, “Yes, is that a problem?” His reply was, “Well…not for me.” I knew exactly who had the problem with that, the man who needs to control everything. It was then that I decided to leave. I thought to myself, I will never go to a church that feels they have the authority to tell me I cannot have a Bible study in my home. Prior to that call from Mike, Bob glared at me in the foyer of the church with his arms folded. My husband walked right up to him and said, “Hi Bob how are you this morning?” Later Russ said, “Wow did you see him staring you down?” I said I was aware he was trying to intimidate me into submission again. He continued to pick apart the Bible study in my home until everyone finally quit coming. In my opinion, he is relentless and ruthless.

I first stayed because I didn’t want to remove my children from the church they loved and then I left so Bob could never harm my children spiritually. I had suffered enough under his leadership and in the end my children were indeed effected by all of this….they should have been able to have a wonderful church to attend all their lives, with wonderful memories and now all they have is the memories of a pastor who bullied around their mother. We attend church now but it is very few and far between and my children just sit with us and they don’t get involved and neither do I. My heart and soul are still damaged.

After I left, I began to wonder about a few things…

Why was the name changed from CCV to Immanual Christian Fellowship?

Why did all those good people leave around this time?

What was Glick going to bring forward to the church?

How come I never saw a church budget the entire time I was there? Didn’t even know there was such a thing until after I left and noticed other churches were completely transparent with the financial records.

Where is all the tithe money going exactly?

Why wasn’t it ever made known who the board was? I guess it wouldn’t have mattered anyway if they really weren’t able to make a difference if you had a complaint.

Who actually owns that church property? Who is on the deed?

Then the blogs began to roll and new info was coming out….what happened to the Grenier boys? Paul? It was then I knew I needed to take a stand to give these boys some credibility to their accusations. After experiencing what I had personally, I could see those things happening to them.

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In addition to sharing with me her personal story, Tina also sent me a copy of the letter her family sent to Pastor Bob Grenier saying they would no longer be attending the church.  Here it is:

Sent May 11, 2007 at 8:57 am

Dear Pastor Bob,

This email is to inform you that we will no longer be attending Calvary Chapel Visalia for the following reasons:

I believe it is my duty to you, and the wonderful people of Calvary Chapel, to speak the truth in love. I have prayed for you that love and compassion would fill your heart, and I will continue to pray for you and the Body of Christ that God has placed in your care.

I would first like to say that back in 1988, I was saved under your ministry, and my husband shortly afterward. We have raised 4 wonderful children in the Lord, under the teachings and leadership of those at Calvary Chapel. We have also built many deep and loving relationships with the members of the body, as we consider them family. I appreciate all of the wonderful things that you have done for Calvary Chapel and the community as a whole. Your work as a police chaplain, the starting of Reaching Youth, the starting of a Community Prayer, all of which God has blessed, and may more I’m sure.

However over the past 5 or 6 years, while I was in leadership, I have observed some things that have broken my heart.  One of which is the lack of love and compassion from you as the senior pastor.  In the Bible, 1 Corinthians 13:1 says, “Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal.” I will tell you with a sincere heart, that you are one of the best Bible teachers I have heard and because of this I would consider myself to be well grounded. I believe it is God’s will that you represent Him correctly to the Body of Christ, that is in your care, not only in word but actions (with compassion and love). As you know, our actions speak louder than our words. As a senior pastor the love & compassion for his flock should be a given and should be overflowing.

I have watched and seen many in leadership just disappear.  I have also observed that the church is run by fear and intimidation. It appears that our church is run like a corporate business, with you as the CEO, rather than a shepherd taking tender care of the flock. I learned very quickly not to do or say anything that might upset you out of fear, not respect. While at a staff meeting you mentioned, “This is not a country club and I know a pastor that fired his whole staff and replaced them.” This type of statement is very offensive, shows no love nor appreciation, and would offend those on a construction site, let alone the house of God. Another thing I guess I just never got over was when I was taken to the back room and where you shared your disgruntled feelings toward someone I hold dear to my heart and then told me if I repeated it to him than I can also leave. That blew me away and needless to say showed me your heart. Just to make you aware, XXXX got saved at Calvary and was a new believer when you placed him in a position of leadership. He loved and respected you and as far a I could see would have done anything for you, even given his life. You in your wisdom, if you weren’t pleased with his service, could have let him go in a way that would have spared his heart. Since he left, he has questioned his faith and really has not found another church family. If things were handled the way Jesus would handle them, then he would still be attending Calvary.

I know that you have a deep relationship with God, but intense stares of disapproval in the foyer because of a Bible study, that by your standard, is not “Calvary ordained”, does not show God’s love. This Bible study is for adults as well as children to hear the Word of God and there have been many people who do not even attend church, come and hear the Word. It wasn’t meant to cause waves, nor was it meant to be Calvary ordained. It was meant to be “God ordained”. It’s just good Christian people getting together for the Word, worship and fellowship. Pastor XXXX has a gift from God as you well know, otherwise you wouldn’t have hired him. Please don’t let your sense of having to be in control, and pride hinder the work of God. Just as a sub note, I lead a Bible study with my parents that is not “Calvary ordained ” and my parents have grown in the Lord and my mom is now saved. I’ve seen a lot of half-truths being spoken to the flock and knew my head was on the chopping block for extending to Pastor XXXX our future home for a Bible study.

In addition, it is apparent to all that visit our facility, that it is beautiful and well maintained. But there is an overemphasis on this, while other ministries suffer financially. The youth and children’s ministry should always be above the facility, since they are the future church. Unfortunately, having worked in the children’s ministry I know they come last. Honestly, we could do without all of the elaborate things we have obtained. I personally would rather sit on a lawn chair in the park and hear the Word preached by a loving pastor, than sit in a cathedral with one who lacks love and compassion. Where did this all go wrong?

I really believe the Lord is grieved. Yes, we should love and respect our pastor as I know the Word says, but you have an obligation to the Lord not to abuse the flock. We are not disposable, we are the Body of Christ. Perhaps you have forgotten this is not your church, it’s God’s and placed in your care. I want it to be known that I love everyone at Calvary but I just can’t stay where I don’t feel the love from you and I refuse to be intimidated and made to feel uneasy when I go to church. If someone asked me why I left, I’ll say I needed a loving and compassionate pastor. You may share this email with anyone you see fit. I have emailed this to Pastor Mike and Pastor Jim so as to keep the record straight. No response is necessary, I have nothing more to say. Except “Love the flock”.


The Jenkins Family

#WhoWouldJesusSue History, Results, and What Now with Calvary Chapel Lawsuit

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Last week has been a whirlwind of activity.   After spending five days in Vegas with my daughter for a volleyball tournament, we returned home Tuesday as a team was working very hard behind the scenes for the Media #WhoWouldJesusSue Blitz scheduled for last Thursday.

Here’s the background story on how this Media Blitz was started.  I try to keep tabs on media stories of church abuse issues.  There have been quite a few Sovereign Grace Ministries (SGM) reports regarding their lawsuit, but what struck me about Alex and Tim’s lawsuit was that it hasn’t seen much media coverage at all.  I was disappointed at the last report I read written from a local news source near Visalia.  Think of what happened during the Penn State sex abuse cases.  It was like the media put a giant magnifying glass on top of that campus and there was massive exposure and media attention.  The media put pressure on that very bad system and forced Penn State to come clean.  That is what we want to happen in this Calvary Chapel lawsuit.  The story needs exposure so that the church is forced to look at their problems.


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#WhoWouldJesusSue: Breaking News Advisory – Press Release #1

PRESS RELEASE #1: Breaking News Advisory


UPDATE: Decision postponed to March 4th with formal hearing March 5th (due to plaintiff’s attorney ‘scheduling conflict’) on suit by Calvary Chapel pastor against step-son and former member


Pastor Bob Grenier of Calvary Chapel Visalia (CCV), California, is suing Tim Taylor of Visalia and also one of his own step-sons, Alex Grenier of Idaho. He specifically contends that Taylor and Alex Grenier have committed “Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress,” “Defamation,” and “Conspiracy to Defame.” The defendants view this as a legal maneuver to intimidate and silence them and others from speaking out against sexual abuse, physical abuse, and ecclesiastical corruption they allege he perpetrated.

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#WhoWouldJesusSue: Media FAQs and Resources


Who is involved?

The plaintiffs are Bob Grenier, pastor of Calvary Chapel Visalia, California, and his wife, Gayle. They are represented by Nick A. Pritchett of Williams, Jordan, Brodersen & Pritchett LLP of Visalia.

The defendants are Tim Taylor, a former member of Calvary Chapel Visalia, and Alex Grenier, a step-son of Bob/son of Gayle Grenier. Tim lives in Visalia and Alex lives in Idaho. They are represented by Paul Clifford of the California Anti-SLAPP Project.

The lawsuit is being heard in the Superior Court of Tulare County, California, by Superior Court Judge Paul Anthony Vortmann.



 CALL TO ACTION: Bringing Awareness to Pastor Bob Grenier’s Lawsuit Against His Son


The following is a call to action. It details a very specific plan to bring awareness to the Calvary Chapel pastor Bob Grenier’s lawsuit against his son. This awareness will be created through a social media blitz. This blitz will begin on Thursday, February 21, starting at 9 am PST.


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Calvary Chapel Visalia Lawsuit, Local News Article, Court Declaration

Fathers, do not exasperate your children, so that they will not lose heart. Col. 3:21

Last week I posted about the Calvary Chapel Visalia Pastor Bob Grenier and his wife, Gayle against their stepson/son Alex and former church member Tim. I mentioned Bob’s son, Paul’s court declaration and the very strong emotions I felt when reading it. I did not feel the liberty to publish his declaration. Shortly after publishing my article, Dee of Wartburg Watch published an article and included a few paragraphs from Paul’s declaration on her blog article and included a link to the rest of the court document. It is a very difficult read.

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Breakings News: Calvary Chapel Grenier Lawsuit Anti-SLAPP

The defamation lawsuit of Calvary Chapel Visalia pastor Bob Grenier and his wife Gayle vs.Tim  Taylor and Alex Grenier is taking place in Tulare County, California. A court hearing date is scheduled for February 19, 2013.

According to defendant Tim Taylor, the court there typically releases a tentative judgment online, on the day before the official court hearing. Since Monday is a federal holiday, the court has posted their tentative decision today and the actual day in court will be Tuesday, February 19. According to Tim’s sources, the losing side has the opportunity at that time to convince the judge to reverse the decision- but such a reversal rarely happens.

Here is the breaking news from Alex as of 2:30 PM on February 15:

The Judge’s decision was continued until February 26.

Alex comments:

Julie Anne, SSB family, thank you so much for covering our story and for speaking out. We all need to continue to shine a bright light into the dark places.

Our hearing was continued to Feb. 26 with a tentative ruling now scheduled for Feb. 25 between 1pm-3pm PST.

Thank you again and keep speaking out against abuse in the church wherever it may occur.

We will add details as they become known, but wanted to update you on this important news in the latest report.

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