ABUSERS & THEIR TACTICS, BGBC Lawsuit, Narcissistic Pastors, Spiritual Bullies

Round and Round We Go: More Court News!!!

We have a new update:  The other original mother on the case has now been voluntarily dismissed from the case yesterday.  WOOHOO!!!!!  I am so thrilled for this family!!! Admin note:   My daughter and I have discussed this and because this case is so public, we have just gone along with that and have… Continue reading Round and Round We Go: More Court News!!!

BGBC Google Reviews, BGBC Lawsuit, Crazy Things Church Leaders Say & Do, It's All About the Image, Meetings with the Pastor, Narcissistic Pastors, No-Talk Rule, Shunning, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Bullies

Additional Former Church Member Has Been Sued!

*     *     * I'll get to the subject of the former church member sued in just a moment, but want to make sure this point is told:  I believe that suing former church members is just an extension of the spiritual abuse.  How can that be?  Let me explain.This is old… Continue reading Additional Former Church Member Has Been Sued!

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eChurch

 Admin Note:  I am hosting eChurch temporarily while the normal hosting site, Wartburg Watch blog is temporarily down.   Pastor Wade Burleson offers an eChurch  - church service on the internet featuring praise songs, prayers, and a video sermon.  I've watched two services and found them very good and uplifting.  Wade Burleson has a blog and… Continue reading eChurch

BGBC Lawsuit, Media Interviews with Julie Anne

Media Inaccuracies: Setting the Record Straight

*     *     *   There have been some inaccuracies in news stories around the internet and I want to set them straight.  This post will be updated if I see more inaccuracies: I am not single.  I am married and have been married to the same man since 1985.  We are… Continue reading Media Inaccuracies: Setting the Record Straight

Modesty and Purity Teachings

Hyper Modesty in the Church, Part 3

*     *     * Personal Note to the Young Adults and Conclusion I know some of the young adults from my former church are reading this blog.  First off, I want to say that I care deeply for you and this message is sent from my heart.  You are part of the… Continue reading Hyper Modesty in the Church, Part 3

Extra-Biblical Nonsense, Legalism, Modesty and Purity Teachings, Spiritual Abuse

Hyper-Modesty in the Church, Part 2

 Does Hyper-Modesty Lead to Lust? Yesterday's post dealt with the subject of hyper-modesty with regard to how we dressed, the preoccupation of not showing cleavage, not accentuating a woman's figure, diverting eyes when seeing female joggers on the road, staying away from public swim areas and areas where people are dressed immodestly, etc.  I also… Continue reading Hyper-Modesty in the Church, Part 2

Extra-Biblical Nonsense, Legalism, Modesty and Purity Teachings

Hyper-Modesty in the Church, Part 1

Do You Have Modesty Police in Your Church? Before we came to the church, our family had general guidelines on modesty.  It wasn't a big deal. There were no rules, but I shared with my daughters to generally try to wear clothes that didn't draw attention to female body parts or cause distraction. I tried… Continue reading Hyper-Modesty in the Church, Part 1

Forgiveness, Sexual Abuse/Assault and Churches, Spiritual Abuse

Do I have an unforgiving heart?

David, a blog reader, has been having dialogue with me and others in the comments section on previous posts and I wanted to highlight some of his comments and address them publicly. We were discussing his thoughts that focusing on my personal stories shows a lack of forgiveness. I asked David what forgiveness looks like… Continue reading Do I have an unforgiving heart?

BGBC Lawsuit

Court News

The hearing was moved later than scheduled and lasted about 2 hours.  Our attorneys were very well prepared and were simply amazing.  The plaintiff's attorney told the court they were dismissing one of the defendants from the lawsuit and also some of my phrases (we still need to see the court documents).  These developments are… Continue reading Court News

BGBC Lawsuit

Court Day

Psalm 91He who dwells in the shelter of the Most Highwill rest in the shadow of the Almighty.I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress,my God, in whom I trust.” Surely he will save you from the fowler’s snareand from the deadly pestilence. He will cover you with his feathers,and under his… Continue reading Court Day

BGBC Lawsuit

One More Day!

My attorney passed along more details about the court hearing tomorrow:The hearing will be held at the Washington County Courthouse, Hillsboro, Oregon in Courtroom 303C 9:00 AM.The hearing is open to the public.  You are welcome to attend.  If you plan on coming, will you either send me a note privately or leave a comment? … Continue reading One More Day!

Going Back to Church Again

Trying Church Again

*     *     * My kids have been having fun this week tracking their mama around on the internet and have been greatly amused that they can type "Julie Anne lawsuit" in their Google search field and see their mama.  I'm not sure what I think about it.  Not only has the… Continue reading Trying Church Again

It's All About the Image, Shunning

Walk the Talk!

Countdown:  3 days until court hearing.  Drawn by Resident Artist, Age 9 This is a fairly new blog, but there are a lot of new readers recently and I would like to welcome you! Never in my life would I have imagined this. But as my new pastor told me: it is what it is… Continue reading Walk the Talk!

BGBC Lawsuit, Crazy Things Church Leaders Say & Do, Dictators, It's All About the Image, Leaving the Church, Meetings with the Pastor, Narcissistic Pastors, No-Talk Rule, Shunning, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Bullies

"Justice" Responds

*     *     *      FrederickaMay 17, 2012 11:07 AM I must confess myself mystified as to the nature of 'Justice's' complaint, which seems to be lacking in a certain, shall we say, precision. What exactly is it that he or she is alleging was done to him or her? AnonymousMay… Continue reading "Justice" Responds

Abuse Systems and Transformation Tools, BGBC Google Reviews, BGBC Lawsuit, Crazy Things Church Leaders Say & Do, LAWSUITS, Sexual Abuse/Assault and Churches, Spiritual Bullies

Julie Anne’s Musings

Countdown:  4 more days until court hearing, drawn by 9-yr old Resident Artist   I have been inundated with requests to set up a Legal Defense fund.  That blesses my socks off.  Thank you for your support in this practical way.  * * * * * * * * * * * * * *… Continue reading Julie Anne’s Musings

Crazy Things Church Leaders Say & Do, Media Interviews with Julie Anne, Mental Health and the Church, Personal Stories, Resident Artist Drawings, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Bullies, SURVIVOR STORIES

Justice: Becoming Free

"Flying Free" by 9-yr old Resident Artist Now, on to much lovelier topics.  I really want you to read this . . . I want to share a story with you about a person named Justice.  Justice is not this person's real name and you'll have to pardon the awkwardness of pronouns in this article… Continue reading Justice: Becoming Free

ABUSERS & THEIR TACTICS, BGBC Google Reviews, BGBC Lawsuit, BLOG INFORMATION, Bloggers and Freedom of Speech, Grace Community Church, Media Interviews with Julie Anne, Phil Johnson, Spiritual Bullies

A Few Notes from Julie Anne

*** Countdown:  5 days till court date,  drawn by JA's 9-yr old *** Just a few things to share before a "regular" blog post coming up as my 9-yr old is busy with his drawing for the post. Phil Johnson from Grace Community Church (John MacArthur's church) reached out to me yesterday and we had… Continue reading A Few Notes from Julie Anne

BGBC Lawsuit, John MacArthur, Phil Johnson

Phil Johnson Issues Statement Regarding Beaverton Grace Bible Church Lawsuit Against Former Members

*     *     * Our former pastor, Chuck O'Neal, said in a Google review (now removed) that a pastor from Grace Community encouraged him to sue us.  This is the public response from John MacArthur/Grace Community via The Wartburg Watch blog.  Dee, thanks for posting the information.  "In a story currently circulating… Continue reading Phil Johnson Issues Statement Regarding Beaverton Grace Bible Church Lawsuit Against Former Members

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Why is this important?

The overwhelming amount of e-mail I have been getting lately is very supportive.  However, every once in a while I get a question that is not so encouraging, like the one below.  I already responded, but this person may speak for others who are wondering the same thing.   This is blog about those who have been… Continue reading Why is this important?

BGBC Google Reviews, BGBC Lawsuit, Bloggers and Freedom of Speech, Crazy Things Church Leaders Say & Do, Grace Community Church, John MacArthur, Phil Johnson, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Bullies

Anticipation

Six More Days Until Court Hearing There are a number of Christian bloggers keeping up with our story.  Yesterday, two popular bloggers posted articles about our situation and I wanted to give more information so you can see how things fit together. I'll give a little background.  This is the original Google review that was… Continue reading Anticipation