I've been having discussions about how spiritual abuse affects marriages. The abuse can occur in a somewhat direct fashion (such as Paul's story) or indirectly. When I did a quick Google search on spiritual abuse and divorce, there was very little on the topic. Yet since publishing Paul's story, I've had more people send their… Continue reading How Can Spiritual Abuse or a Controlling Pastor Destroy a Marriage?
Month: August 2012
Here’s the church, here’s the steeple . . .
One of my readers sent me a couple pictures of her former church she labeled as abusive. Here is the church as it used to be.View from frontStrong winds recently came through the area, knocking the steeple over. A number of former members have been discussing this "act of God": God may be trying… Continue reading Here’s the church, here’s the steeple . . .
Can Spiritual Abuse Destroy a Marriage? Paul’s Story
* Â Â * Â Â * From time to time, I will be posting select personal spiritual abuse stories here. Â There are a number of reasons to post stories of abuse. Â We can learn from them to try to prevent it from happening again. Â We can offer support. Â Looking at someone's story might identify… Continue reading Can Spiritual Abuse Destroy a Marriage? Paul’s Story
Response to Apology – Trolls and Spiritual Abuse
Last week, Fred Butler issued a public apology to the Smith Family on his own blog per my husband's request. Comments on the post were closed, so I have copied Steve's words here (and sent Fred an e-mail):Fred, Concerning what you wrote about Hannah - your apology is accepted and I forgive you. Thank you for… Continue reading Response to Apology – Trolls and Spiritual Abuse
Wolf Alert!!
It's been a bit heavy here. We need a diversion. Yes, let's talk about wolves - the animal kind. Thanks you, monax, for posting this story in the comments:For I know this, that after my departure savage wolves will come in among you, not sparing the flock. Acts 20:29 Swiss sheep to be outfitted to cry… Continue reading Wolf Alert!!
A Personal Note From Hannah’s Father to Fred
Thank you Fred for the apology - here. However the error has not yet been run to ground.Now would you kindly follow through with that same stream of humility and post a sincere retraction apology on your own Hip and Thigh blog where the error took root? It grieves the church to perceive GCC leaders… Continue reading A Personal Note From Hannah’s Father to Fred
The World is Watching Us
*** One of the key signs of a healthy person and a healthy church is looking at the fruit they exhibit. Â What kind of love do they show? Â How do they model Christ to the world? Â The world is watching and judging. I read some words yesterday that were shocking to me on many levels.… Continue reading The World is Watching Us
Hannah’s Personal Story in Her Own Words
Readers: Â I've had this post in my "draft posts" for quite some time, but the time to post it is now and I will explain more about that very soon. Â You'll see why it is important to hear from her own words. I shared my perspective of Hannah's story in the most popular blog post,… Continue reading Hannah’s Personal Story in Her Own Words
Spiritual Sounding Board 