ABUSIVE FAITH & PRACTICE, Beaverton Grace Bible Church, Biblical Counseling, Chuck O'Neal, Crazy Things Church Leaders Say & Do, Meetings with the Pastor, Narcissistic Pastors, Parenting, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Authority, Spiritual Bullies

Disobedient Children and Meetings with the Pastor

  I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth. 3 John 1:4   On our very first Sunday at the church, I recall being in the nursery with my baby. A sweet teenager was helping with childcare and she told me in a matter-of-fact way that she… Continue reading Disobedient Children and Meetings with the Pastor

BGBC Lawsuit

Bloggers and Pastors

Modern day technology is amazing.  Little did I know that by posting resources on my sidebar and reaching out to people found on the internet would yield comments and support from complete strangers.  The intent of this blog is to provide information and support to those who have experienced any kind of spiritual abuse.  … Continue reading Bloggers and Pastors

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Chuck O’Neal Secretly Recorded Private Conversations

*     *     * Pastor Chuck O'Neal sometimes recorded private conversations without getting permission from involved parties.  The elders were aware of this practice as you will read below.   This  was not a rare practice for him according to some people who personally saw this taking place.  I'm wondering how many churches… Continue reading Chuck O’Neal Secretly Recorded Private Conversations

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White Hanky Award: "Hypocricy" by Anonymous Commenter

** I've visited a couple of "African-American" churches -  of course they would welcome anybody, but they were primarily filled with African-Americans.  They were so warm and loving.  The services were exciting and the joy of the Lord was acknowledged loudly and from the heart.   I love to see how other churches praise God. … Continue reading White Hanky Award: "Hypocricy" by Anonymous Commenter

ABUSE & VIOLENCE IN THE CHURCH, ABUSE RECOVERY PROCESS-PROBLEMS, ABUSERS & THEIR TACTICS, BGBC Google Reviews, BGBC Lawsuit, BLOG INFORMATION, Bloggers and Freedom of Speech, Spiritual Abuse

One Month and I Feel Good

** It's been one month since this blog was created.  After noticing my Google reviews on Beaverton Grace Bible Church were being removed from the Google review website without any explanation, I began this blog to share my story because I felt my voice was being taken from me.  I don't get this idea of… Continue reading One Month and I Feel Good

BGBC Lawsuit

The Lawsuit

Sorry, my cat must have gotten the top of it.  This is the last page of the summons. When I got home from taking my daughter to volleyball practice the other night, my husband told me that a person knocked at the door and hand-delivered some papers that he had to sign for.  I was… Continue reading The Lawsuit

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You Won’t Find a Better Church

** Proverbs 27:2 Let another man praise you, and not your own mouth; A stranger, and not your own lips. Isaiah 5:21 Woe to those who are wise in their own eyes and clever in their own sight. Throughout our time at BGBC, we came across this message on a consistent basis:  you won't find… Continue reading You Won’t Find a Better Church

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Leaving a Church

My husband and I met at church when we were single and in college and have been going to church together as a family for all of our married life.  Prior to that, we were regular church attenders all of our childhood.  This church thing is nothing new to us.  When my husband was active… Continue reading Leaving a Church

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Chuck’s Reviews of Me on Google and Threat of Lawsuit for Defamation

*     *     * Somehow, the powers that be at Google have removed my legitimate reviews of Beaverton Grace Bible Church, yet have allowed Chuck O'Neal's reviews of me on the Google review site of the church.  I wasn't aware that if you search Beaverton Grace Bible Church on Google, that my… Continue reading Chuck’s Reviews of Me on Google and Threat of Lawsuit for Defamation

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Google Reviews

Somehow someone has been able to manipulate the Google reviews so that the church members' reviews stay on top, pushing down the negative reviews.   Below is a new review today.  I had completely forgotten about the weird foot washings and triple-dipping baptisms.  That is why this blog can be very helpful.  When you are… Continue reading Google Reviews