Disturbing Trends, Homeschool Movement, Patriarchal-Complementarian Movement, Patrick Henry College, Reconstructionist-Dominion Movement

The Homeschool Movement: Reconstructionist Movement, Michael Farris, HSLDA, and Patrick Henry College

  Continuing with last article's theme of Reconstructionist ideology as in the homeschool movement, I'd like to give you some history on Michael Farris, one of the key pillars in the homeschool movement.  I cannot say whether Farris would call himself a Reconstructionist, but as I shared in the last post, many times people adopt… Continue reading The Homeschool Movement: Reconstructionist Movement, Michael Farris, HSLDA, and Patrick Henry College

Courtship, Disturbing Trends, Homeschool Movement, Modesty and Purity Teachings, Patriarchal-Complementarian Movement, Reconstructionist-Dominion Movement, Spiritual Abuse

The Homeschool Movement: Its Reconstructionist Roots and Rushdoony’s Influence

"We are authorized by God to challenge all that is not godly!" Rushdoony thundered. "God is angry with the wicked every day, and the sins of the wicked deserve the infliction of God's wrath in this life as well as the life hereafter!"  RushdoonyI know the title of this post seems dry and boring.  If… Continue reading The Homeschool Movement: Its Reconstructionist Roots and Rushdoony’s Influence

Courtship, Homeschool Movement, Modesty and Purity Teachings, Patriarchal-Complementarian Movement, Single and Christian

The UnMarried Movie: Singleness as a Result of Rigid and Controlled Parenting

I'm still getting comments on the UnMarried movie posts (More Background Info on the Movie: UnMarried and UnMarried Movie: Is Staying Single Sabotaging Chr... )  and today while looking through my Twitter feed, I noticed quite a few tweets on the topics of modesty and purity.  In case you missed the brief movie trailer, here it is:I've discussed… Continue reading The UnMarried Movie: Singleness as a Result of Rigid and Controlled Parenting

BGBC Google Reviews, Spiritual Abuse

False Teachers: The Hard Gospel and Grace

In my former church our pastor spoke that our church was different than others because he preached a tough gospel message.  It was implied that people in other churches would have difficulty getting through the narrow gate to heaven because their pastors preached what they wanted to hear, not what was necessary to get to… Continue reading False Teachers: The Hard Gospel and Grace

Church Lingo, Patriarchal-Complementarian Movement, Single and Christian

More Background Info on the Movie: UnMarried

There is a slice of heaven on earth when we can relate to one another in the church, regardless of the form our family takes, as individuals equal in worth, significance and value.  ~Wade BurlesonThe other day, I posted about a new movie coming out called UnMarried.  I really appreciated the contributions in the comments.  Just… Continue reading More Background Info on the Movie: UnMarried

Disturbing Trends, Single and Christian

UnMarried Movie: Is Staying Single Sabotaging Christianity?

WARNING TO SINGLES:  You just might blow a fuse after reading this.  Brace yourselves.Yesterday I was reading SGMSurvivors.com blog and read this comment:Jenn Grover November 28th, 2012 at 11:06 pmPersona -- don’t even get me started on that line of thinking about singles. CJ got that straight from Mohler. “There is no biblical category for enduring… Continue reading UnMarried Movie: Is Staying Single Sabotaging Christianity?

Courtship, Homeschool Movement, Modesty and Purity Teachings, Patriarchal-Complementarian Movement, Personal Stories, SURVIVOR STORIES

A Courtship Story: Chryssie Rose

*     *     * Over the past couple months, I've been sharing bits and pieces of the homeschooling movement as it ties in with abuse in churches.  I've connected a number of times with Chryssie Rose who reads here and is also a blogger and asked if she could share her courtship… Continue reading A Courtship Story: Chryssie Rose

Domestic Violence and Churches, Failure to Report Crimes, Patriarchal-Complementarian Movement, Sexual Abuse/Assault and Churches, Sovereign Grace Ministries, Women and the Church

Complementarians Speak out about Violence Against Women

“Silence in the face of evil is itself evil: God will not hold us guiltless.   Not to speak is to speak.  Not to act is to act.”Dietrich Bonhoeffer Today, Novermber 25, was the day designated as the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women:"Millions of women and girls around the world are assaulted, beaten,… Continue reading Complementarians Speak out about Violence Against Women

BGBC Lawsuit, Failure to Report Crimes, Sexual Abuse/Assault and Churches, Sovereign Grace Ministries

Judge Refuses to Drop Charges in Oklahoma Failure to Report Case

One of my big pet peeves is pastors or church leaders who fail to report cases of suspected abuse to civil authorities.  I found an update on a case mentioned earlier in this post:  Mandatory Reporting Laws for Clergy: Loopholes for AbuseHere is the new update:Okla. Judge Refuses to Drop Child Abuse Charges Against Victory… Continue reading Judge Refuses to Drop Charges in Oklahoma Failure to Report Case

Courtship, Homeschool Movement, Legalism, Patriarchal-Complementarian Movement, Sovereign Grace Ministries

Courtship: The Background and Negative Outcomes

Soon I will begin posting personal courtship stories, so it might be helpful to get a little background of the history of courtship.  The courtship model is unquestionably a part of the culture of many conservative churches, conservative Christian groups, and promoted by leaders in the homeschooling community.  Some groups who have embraced the courtship… Continue reading Courtship: The Background and Negative Outcomes

Courtship, Homeschool Movement, Modesty and Purity Teachings, Open Blogging, Personal Stories, Reader's Prose

Hannah’s Purity Ring Story

After posting the article, Fathers and Daughters: Who Owns a Daughter's Heart?, it opened up a can of worms for Hannah, my 25-year old daughter.   For new readers, she's my daughter who was also named in the defamation lawsuit by our former pastor (you can read her story from her perspective:  Hannah's Personal Story in Her Own… Continue reading Hannah’s Purity Ring Story

Tithing

The Offering Plate

I don't usually do this, but this article is just beautiful and  . . . radical.  It comes from Wade Burleson who pastors Emmanuel Baptist Church in Enid, Oklahoma.   You can hear his sermons each week at EChurch at the The Wartburg Watch blog.  Thankful for Giving at Thanksgiving Emmanuel Enid receives offerings in our four… Continue reading The Offering Plate

BGBC Lawsuit, It's All About the Image, Sovereign Grace Ministries, Spiritual Abuse

C.J. Mahaney’s Philosophy on Friends: Don’t Bite the Hand that Feeds You

"For you yourselves know, brothers, that our coming to you was not in vain. But though we had already suffered and been shamefully treated at Philippi, as you know, we had boldness in our God to declare to you the gospel of God in the midst of much conflict. For our appeal does not spring… Continue reading C.J. Mahaney’s Philosophy on Friends: Don’t Bite the Hand that Feeds You

Abuse Systems and Transformation Tools, BGBC Lawsuit, Sexual Abuse/Assault and Churches, Sovereign Grace Ministries

Detailing Events and Discerning the Times: Part Two

  Detailing Events and Discerning the Times: Part Two © Brad Sargent (brad/futuristguy), November 2012     5. Individual and Crowd-Sourced Snapshots for a Viable Video   In Part One, I explained why I felt it was worth spending a day analyzing a Covenant Life Church (CLC) Members Meeting, despite my being an outsider to… Continue reading Detailing Events and Discerning the Times: Part Two

Abuse Systems and Transformation Tools, BGBC Lawsuit, Sexual Abuse/Assault and Churches, Sovereign Grace Ministries, Spiritual Abuse

Detailing Events and Discerning the Times: Part One

Detailing Events and Discerning the Times: Part One © Brad Sargent (brad/futuristguy), November 2012 After I wrote my analysis piece on Sovereign Grace Ministries in the previous post, I was asked two questions and invited to share more detail on: Why evaluating a Members Meeting that happened at Covenant Life Church (CLC) over a year… Continue reading Detailing Events and Discerning the Times: Part One

Extra-Biblical Nonsense

Creflo Dollar Says I’m Bringing A Curse on Myself for Exposing Pastors

What do you think?  I don't know a whole lot about Creflo Dollar, but I've heard similar teachings.  Am I cursed for exposing "appointed leaders?"  This video clip is less than 3 minutes long.  I'm not sure I will be able to sleep tonight.   I'm so scared, Brother Creflo!  Transcribed from the video:We got… Continue reading Creflo Dollar Says I’m Bringing A Curse on Myself for Exposing Pastors

Spiritual Abuse

Spiritual Abuse: How to Deal with Stumbling Blocks on our Journey

We give great honor to those who endure under suffering.  For instance, you know about Job, a man of great endurance.  You can see how the Lord was kind to him at the end, for the Lord is full of tenderness and mercy.  James 5:11So   . . . . . . . .  … Continue reading Spiritual Abuse: How to Deal with Stumbling Blocks on our Journey

BGBC Lawsuit, Sexual Abuse/Assault and Churches, Sovereign Grace Ministries

Sovereign Grace Ministries Updated Statement on Lawsuit – Nov. 14, 2012

Sovereign Grace Ministries released yet another new press release today, November 14, 2012, regarding the civil lawsuit filed against Sovereign Grace Ministries.  This is their third response.  When we dig below the surface of the words, we can see their heart of their agenda.  What is the purpose of a press release?  It is to… Continue reading Sovereign Grace Ministries Updated Statement on Lawsuit – Nov. 14, 2012

BGBC Lawsuit, Misuse of Scripture, Sexual Abuse/Assault and Churches, Sovereign Grace Ministries

A Word of Encouragement to Abuse Victims Who Use Civil Litigation

My heart really goes out to victims and their families in abuse cases (domestic violence, child abuse, and sex abuse) and I have a huge amount of respect for those who, when realizing that the problem is much bigger than their own personal situation, risk so much by taking it to a new level by… Continue reading A Word of Encouragement to Abuse Victims Who Use Civil Litigation

Abuse Systems and Transformation Tools, It's All About the Image, Sexual Abuse/Assault and Churches, Sovereign Grace Ministries

Sovereign Grace Ministries: Analysis of CLC Members Meeting

Analysis of CLC Members Meeting of August 17, 2011INTRODUCTIONThe following analysis was produced by Brad Sargent. He is more known by his online handle of “brad/futuristguy,” and he often writes about recovery from spiritual abuse and how to prevent toxic organizations. For this article, Brad used a transcript of the Covenant Life Church (CLC) members’ meeting of August… Continue reading Sovereign Grace Ministries: Analysis of CLC Members Meeting