** We were taught submission at our former church:Â children to parents, wives to husbands, husbands to Christ, congregants to pastor/elders, civilians to governmental authorities. Most churches have a check and balance system in place to ensure that there are no abuses going on in church. Â Here is part the doctrinal statement from our former… Continue reading Independent Churches = Recipe for Spiritual Abuse?
Category: 11 Hours of Meetings
Creepy Pastors and Churches Using Creepy Stalking Control Tactics
*   *   * There have been a few stories of spiritual abuse in the news lately. A kind reader sent me this article from The Christian Post:  Spiritual Abuse: Shepherds – or Fleecers – of God's Flock?  This article starts by discussing the abuse of gaining members' funds through… Continue reading Creepy Pastors and Churches Using Creepy Stalking Control Tactics
The Fingerprints of a False Teacher
During the week the media found out about my lawsuit, I got an e-mail from Ken Garrett who is a pastor of a church in Portland, OR (about 20 minutes away from my former church). Ken pastors a church named, Portland Grace Bible Church. My former church also is Grace Bible Church, but with a… Continue reading The Fingerprints of a False Teacher
Survival Strategies for Hyper-Authoritarian and Repetitive Sermons
*   *   * I'm a little bit surprised if you are still reading my blog.  The last three posts were rigged to make a point and I took you on a ride without your permission so you could understand first-hand what it felt like. I tricked you and purposefully kept the… Continue reading Survival Strategies for Hyper-Authoritarian and Repetitive Sermons
Authoritarianism in the Church
Candidacy for Spiritual Abuse: Don’t Develop Your Independent Thinking Skills  In my family's personal story at BGBC, after the abrupt firing of a staff employee, the pastor had a church meeting and mentioned that if anyone had questions, he and the elders would be available to answer questions. My husband and I set an… Continue reading Authoritarianism in the Church